{"id":2775,"date":"2021-06-19T01:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-06-19T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/priscimon.com\/blog\/?p=2775"},"modified":"2025-10-28T11:55:39","modified_gmt":"2025-10-28T10:55:39","slug":"old-new-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/priscimon.com\/blog\/2021\/06\/19\/old-new-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Old new friends"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I was added to an alumni WhatsApp group and got to talk to my old high-school (or college) friends again. It&#8217;s interesting to see that after 27 years, the same cliques exist, the same people monopolise the conversation, and there are the same quiet ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There&#8217;s also the dichotomy of the friends who live in Mauritius and those who are abroad. The first group talk about looking for a way out, and the second, a mind to return to Mauritius. The first group also appear to give a lot of importance to financial stability while the second wish for quiet and enjoyment. Of course, many more are content with their situations and express no desire for change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am not sure what to make of it, but it is an intriguing observation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was added to an alumni WhatsApp group and got to talk to my old high-school (or college) friends again. It&#8217;s interesting to see that after 27 years, the same cliques exist, the same people monopolise the conversation, and there are the same quiet ones. There&#8217;s also the dichotomy of the friends who live in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2775","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1j9q5-IL","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2848,"url":"https:\/\/priscimon.com\/blog\/2021\/08\/03\/objects-that-tell-stories\/","url_meta":{"origin":2775,"position":0},"title":"Objects that tell stories","author":"Eddy Young","date":"3 August 2021","format":false,"excerpt":"Today I replaced the batteries of my Photon Micro-Light and gave it a bit of TLC. 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